DIVORCE THEM KINDLY

In the Name of Allāh.

When kindness and compassion are put aside, cruelty reigns instead. There are stories of woe, of oppression, as some husbands, the very men entrusted with the care of their wives, turn a blind eye to the Wisdom of Allāh and embrace the dark arts of cruelty and mistreatment.

We’ve seen perverted husbands who will not initiate divorce when it’s glaringly inevitable but rather punish, victimize, …

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THE DIGNITY OF WOMEN

In the Name of Allāh.

O men who lack protective jealousy for their wives! Heed the clarion call of Islām, which proclaims the sanctity and dignity of women. You betray their trust, and you abandon your sacred duty, allowing your wives to be exposed to the evil of non-Maḥram men. Your homes, once a place of chastity and honour, have become dens of sin and perversion.

More ignorantly, in the …

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JOB OVER HOME

In the Name of Allāh.

Today, some husbands have wrongly placed their jobs over their families. But, no woman wants a husband who is married to his job. Should such husbands terminate their jobs to make their marriages work? Some wives wouldn’t mind paying their husbands to ordinarily smile at them when at home because they don’t do it. However, they smile and give concentration to customers, behave nicely to …

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A TYRANT TO HIS WIFE

In the Name of Allāh.

By Allāh, some men are tyrannical masters in their homes. They ill-treat their wives like slaves and the house consequently becomes unbearably hot for living. What is wrong with such men? This is not part of the qualities of the pious men. Allāh forbids this as He says (in Sūrah An-Nisa’ [4] verse 19): “…And live with them honourably. If you dislike them, it may

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WHO ARE THE BEST?

In the Name of Allāh.

O, husbands! Never be emotionally, mentally,  or physically cruel to your wives. The Prophet (ﷺ) never mistreated his wives. He (ﷺ) was also known to help his wives at the house. As recorded in Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 676, our mother, A’ishah (Raḍiyallāhu ‘Anha) was asked: “What did the Prophet (ﷺ) use to do in his house?” She replied, “He used to keep himself busy

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