CULTIVATING A BLISSFUL MARRIAGE

In the Name of Allāh. Have you read the book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People? This impactful book focuses on universal principles and paradigms of effectiveness, offering practices that transition individuals from dependence and independence to interdependence. Habit 4 therein, “Think Win-Win,” emphasizes that “In the long run, if it isn’t a win…

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FREE FROM THE BLAMES

In the Name of Allāh. Verily, the clarity and beauty of Islām reveal its teachings about marriage, emphasizing that ‘forced marriage’ has no place within it. In Islām, marriage is a significant act; considered an act of worship, a Sunnah of the Prophet (ﷺ), a blessed symbol of love, a means of safeguarding chastity, and…

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A SALUTE TO RESPONSIBLE MEN

In the Name of Allāh. O men! Behind every beautiful woman stands a responsible man. The truth is, grass won’t remain green if it isn’t watered. So, resist the temptation to be distracted by the greener grass on the other side. Instead, focus on your lawn and explore ways to enhance it further. Know that…

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A HOME FILLED WITH HONOR

In the Name of Allāh. Raising children in a home that breathes love, respect, and care is essential in molding their behavior and helping them develop healthy relationships in their future homes. By upholding these positive values, we instill in them a sense of right and wrong and the importance of treating others with kindness…

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DIVORCE THEM KINDLY

In the Name of Allāh. When kindness and compassion are put aside, cruelty reigns instead. There are stories of woe, of oppression, as some husbands, the very men entrusted with the care of their wives, turn a blind eye to the Wisdom of Allāh and embrace the dark arts of cruelty and mistreatment. We’ve seen…

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JOB OVER HOME

In the Name of Allāh. Today, some husbands have wrongly placed their jobs over their families. But, no woman wants a husband who is married to his job. Should such husbands terminate their jobs to make their marriages work? Some wives wouldn’t mind paying their husbands to ordinarily smile at them when at home because…

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WHO ARE THE BEST?

In the Name of Allāh. O, husbands! Never be emotionally, mentally,  or physically cruel to your wives. The Prophet (ﷺ) never mistreated his wives. He (ﷺ) was also known to help his wives at the house. As recorded in Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 676, our mother, A’ishah (Raḍiyallāhu ‘Anha) was asked: “What did the Prophet (ﷺ) use…

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